To paint a rosy picture of
Taiwan, or any country for that matter, would be unfair and biased,
and as such shouldn't be rated trustworthy. On the other hand I do
not intend to voice annoyances only to have a go at this place. One
needs to admit however that there are certain situations when
patience runs thin and one wishes to boil over.
Take punctuality for
instance. It is not at all uncommon for Taiwanese to pay little
attention to others' time, so it seems at least. Most of the time, it
takes a complete fool, to be at the most of the classes on time, as
is the case at the time of writing this piece, which has this silver
lining that I can put together this article. As for now the teacher
is half an hour late and I seriously doubt if my waiting is even half
way over. Of course this feature is not unique to Taiwan. Spaniards
could easily match them on punctuality, but what is surprising, and
yes annoying too, is that at the time of making an appointing with
Taiwanese they would stress the need for you to be there on time. As
if on purpose intending to check if you are either dumb or stay in
the country short enough to actually care. It seems even more
surprising that such a behaviour - of lack of punctuality - is
advised and seems acceptable to a degree, during business meetings,
as numerous web pages advise business people to not be late for the
meeting by more then ten minutes. To be on a safe site I will not
follow this somewhat doubtful advise but I must admit that the
schedule of a business meeting is nothing more then a draft.
Therefore planning successive business meetings, based on a
assumption that the first will end roughly on time, is a certain
receipt for a failure.
Being fair on that account
it must be said that even if business meetings are little to the
point, which must be a torture for those of Protestant working
ethics, they serve well the purpose of establishing and deepening
personal relationships, which in turn are vital for success here. The
length of any discussion is directly related to the fact that
straight-forwardness is not valued, especially if it involves some
uncomfortable truths. These should be avoided at all cost, sometimes
bordering drollery.
Then there are dining
manners. First I can hardly imagine any University where teacher,
when he eventually shows up, doesn't mind students eating stenchy
food, or for that matter eating in a first place. So there will be
MacDonald's sets, pizzas, soups, whole chickens being brought to the
lectures. It never cease to amaze me how relax people are here, and
Chinese in general, with food consumption. It seems as if the
atavistic urge to eat surpasses any social convention which by nature
must be secondary to hunger. Slurping and belching habits are
difficult to accept regardless of my numerous visits to China. My
upbringing must have been rigid enough for me not being able to not
to squeak at those sounds. I have managed to refrain from judgemental
comments directed at the culprits and correcting those failing to
admire the food in somewhat awkward manner and simply accepted that
as an inevitable part of a dining experience here. Having said that I
must admit that such a behaviour is not common and more widespread in
Mainland China then here in Taiwan.
Another thing of a great
potency to have my nerves racked is total lack of concern for fluent
pedestrians movement. Often, for some reason, and this not being the
height, it seems easier to jump over a person in front then bypass
them or take them over. As if walking straight on the pavement is not
something highly valued here. But even more annoying is the constant
rush to be a few meters ahead, jump in front of somebody before the
queue is established, because then no matter what, won position will
not be ceded as the queue seems sanctimonious. Good example of that
is boarding the tube or train. The second the train stops and the
door opens the on-platform would-be passengers crowd the door without
much concern for those inside. Them, the proper passengers, equally
crowded inside, one on top of the another, are totally affixed with
setting feet on the platform. And of course no matter how much
would-bes want to get in the propers need to leave first – physics
is merciless.
Finally there is a habit
of repetition. Of course a repetition is a key to learning, but
Chinese, and Taiwanese also, in fact sharing the same language, tend
to repeat every thought or sentence, couple of times before moving on
with the argument as if the listener is retarded. This situation
becomes physically painful to neck muscles, especially at the
lectures, due to constant head nodding motion, serving as non-verbal
confirmation that the argument has indeed been understood and the
notion at stake, explained properly, probably at the first, or surely
no later then at the third attempt.
On the other hand for a
foreigner willing to master Chinese this habit is a bliss, as it
gives an actual chance to decipher what has been said.
The above list is by no
means exquisite and likely, on some accounts, not fair either, as the
annoyances may simply result from my personal lack of understanding
of society's fabric – history, customs, traditions, etc. Nor I
intend to offend my hosts and hope I managed to balance my opinions
and criticism. But I am pretty sure that the above views, at least
partly, are shared by others visitors to Taiwan.
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